VMAP – BDSM in Power Exchange Pt 2

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The Chemistry: Opiates in your Brain
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What drives some of us to want or crave control, physical pain, confinement, restraint, emotional pain, or humiliation? We begin a close look at the tidal forces that lie beneath the desire for BDSM. In the next several Episodes VMAP looks at the core link between BDSM and Power Exchange, starting by understanding what BDSM is, and the needs that drive it.

VMAP FM – Fun with Flags, Feminism, Slavery

S01E03FM-newPublished on Aug 7, 2015

How can you call yourself a feminist and identify as a female slave?

Flags and other political topics. Another Episode of VMAP Fetching Mettle, our casual and personal side episodes.

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SEX POSITIVE FEMINISM

Annie Sprinkle http://anniesprinkle.org/
Tristan Taormino http://tristantaormino.com/
Laci Green https://www.youtube.com/user/lacigreen

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FLAGS

Tony DeBlase talks about the Leather Pride Flag
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G3pBD…

The Master/slave and Dom/sub flag
by Master Tallen
http://truetales.org/writings/tallen0…

House of Tanos
http://www.tanos.org.uk/

VMAP – BDSM and Power Exchange 1

Episode HeaderIs there a tie between BDSM and mental illness?  We investigate in VMAP – BDSM and Power Exchange – Episode 1

What are the hidden needs that drive humans to want to be hurt, confined, or suffer emotional pain?  Can these be healthy in a relationship?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B4QoTyRqMKQ
In the next several Episodes VMAP looks at the core link between BDSM and Power Exchange, starting by understanding what BDSM is, and the needs that drive it.
PLUS!  Rebecca Doll does the FU Dance

 

VMAP – Is there a wrong way to do Power Exchange?

Is there a wrong way to do Power Exchange, and non-consensual ice-cream! On YouTube

Intro Photo For EpisodeJoin us for VMAP’s latest “Fetching Mettle” side episode on YouTube, in which we take questions and answers and expose some of our most ludicrous outtakes! See Rebecca Doll subjected to non-consensual ice cream music!

  • We’ve said there’s no right way to do Power Exchange? But is there a wrong way?
  • Can marriage and M/s Co-exist?
  • What is the connection between Power Exchange and BDSM?

We explore these and other questions as we gear up for a multi-part series on BDSM and Power Exchange!

VMAP – Needs in Power Exchange Pt 2

In this episode, we tackle more provocative questions.

Is there a basic Image Capture from Episode - shows title.need that drives us to cheating?
How does resentment undermine relationships?
What about “needs” like being hurt or humiliated?

The second of two parts, we continue to explore how needs; not collars, cuffs, slave positions, or chains; are focal to Power Exchange relationships.

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VMAP – Power Exchange Lifestyle Discussion

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James Gordon and Rebecca Doll provide an introduction to how to build lasting Master/slave, Mistress/slave, Dominant/submissive and other lifestyle dynamics.

VMAP Fetching Mettle is our biweekly “informal” episode, where we catch up on questions and share bonus material which didn’t make it into past videos, either because there wasn’t time, or it didn’t quite fit the overall flow.

In this week’s Fetching Mettle we learn

* A little more about James’ and Rebecca’s qualifications and background
* The real truth about “True Mastery” and “True Slavery”
* Can someone serve two masters?

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VMAP – Mastery and Power Exchange Introduction

VMAP Episode 1 - Introduction
VMAP Episode 1 – Introduction

James Gordon and Rebecca Doll provide an introduction to how to build lasting Master/slave, Mistress/slave, Dominant/submissive and other lifestyle dynamics.

VMAP is an educational project of Modern Power Exchange which focuses on a healthy, consensual, scientific, sex-positive approach to Power Exchange in human relationships.

Not a course on BDSM or sex, VMAP is focused on people who may have seen Fifty Shades of Grey or other media, but don’t know how to bridge the gap between fiction and a real lifestyle, as well as those who already practice Power Exchange and want help making it work better.

In our introduction we focus on:
* Myths about Power Exchange
* Terms that people who practice power exchange actually use
* A big pitfall that wrecks many Power Exchange relationships

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Looking for VMAP elsewhere on the Internet?
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ComprehensiveMastery
Twitter: https://twitter.com/ModPwrXchange

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HELP – feel that your relationship may involve non-consensual abuse? Get Help!

We recommend:

National Human Trafficking Resource Center
1-888-373-7888
http://www.traffickingresourcecenter.org/get-help

National Domestic Violence Hotline

Home – The Hotline


1-800-799-7233

Consensually involved in Power Exchange but experiencing non-consensual abuse?

Kink-aware Victim Services
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
https://docs.google.com/viewer?url=https://ncsfreedom.org/images/stories/pdfs/Consent%20Counts/CC_Docs_New_011513/Kink%20Aware%20Victim%20Services.pdf

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Being discriminated against because of a Power Exchange relationship?

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
https://www.ncsfreedom.org/

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References in this Episode:

Dancer, P. L., P. J. Kleinplatz, et al. (2006). “24/7 SM slavery.” J Homosex 50(2-3): 81-101.
http://www.researchgate.net/publication/6980475_247_SM_slavery

Fisher, H. E. (2009). Why him? why her? : finding real love by understanding your personality type. New York, H. Holt.
https://books.google.com/books/about/Why_Him_Why_Her.html?id=tNT6ERmW2h0C&hl=en

Bartels, A. and S. Zeki (2000). “The neural basis of romantic love.” Neuroreport 11(17): 3829-3834.
https://docs.google.com/viewer?url=http://www.vislab.ucl.ac.uk/pdf/NeuralBasisOfLove.pdf

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