Hypnosis

Negotiation Checklist/Guide for Consensual Erotic Hypnosis

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Sample Negotiation Checklist/Guide

Not certain about Consent?  Check out our Consent Handout.

Here we have attempted to bring together all the potential questions that we’ve discussed. All of the questions may not be relevant to a given encounter, but this should give you a resource for making sure that you’ve covered most of the bases.

 

Partner Questions

What is your level of experience with hypnosis?

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What is your level of experience with (any other kink elements)?

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What do you hope/want to get out of this scene?

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What emotions or feelings do you want to get out of this scene?

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What physical sensations (if any) do you want to get out of this scene?

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Whitelist items – What things should definitely be in the scene?

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Known triggers (e.g. rape, blood, dogs, cold) to avoid in hypnotic scenes

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Limits. What things should definitely not happen

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Off limits body parts/areas

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Injuries/Issues

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Health concerns (including allergies to latex/lube if relevant)

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Have you ever had any problems with things you were told or asked

to do in a hypnotic state carrying over into your waking life?

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Safeword/Caution Words

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Safe Signs

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What do abreactions look like (if known)

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What should we do if there is a major abreaction

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What sort of aftercare will we do

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Safety/Emergency Contact

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Non Hypnosis

This isn’t intended to be a full checklist of all the non-hypnosis things that require consent.  It is intended to be a quick guide to handle some of the most common non-hypnosis elements that require negotiation.  

☐　Can I touch you?

☐　Erogenous touch

Where is it okay?

☐　Under the clothes?

☐　Can clothes come off?

Sexual touch

Masturbation ☐ give ☐ receive

Oral ☐ give ☐ receive

Genital ☐ give ☐ receive

Anything else…anal, etc.

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Kink

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During Hypnosis

☐　Description of sexual acts

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☐　Erotic Stimulation

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Suggestions/Whitelist – things your partner wants suggested

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Suggestions about yourself?

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Control suggestions?

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Post hypnotic suggestions and triggers?

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Permission for

☐　Eroticization

☐　Orgasm triggers

☐　Arousal triggers,

☐　Any public arousal triggers?

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Roleplay scenes

____________________________________________________________________________________________

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Taboo areas open to investigation

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Information regarding experiences, taste , touch sensations

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Anything else?

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Charmed! 2020, January 17-19, 2020

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See the Charmed! Website for Registration and Information

Friday
Immersive Hypnotic Role Play 1hr
2020-01-17, 2:00–3:00, Coastal East [Class Handout]

Being Barbie: An Introduction to Dollification Fetish 1hr
2020-01-17, 5:45– 6:45, Mainsail East  [Class Handout]

Saturday
Death Fetish: the ultimate taboo 1.5 hr
2020-01-18, 1:30–3:00, Mainsail East  [Class Handout]

Our Consent Handout
We reference our consent handout in most of our classes  [Our Universal Consent Handout]

Now Available: Mastering Erotic Hypnosis

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Mastering Erotic Hypnosis banner, features photo of James Gordon, C.Ht. and Rebecca Doll M. EDCI. Text reads "A book that lays bare all the secrets of hypnotic play. A scientific approach which respects the reader. Modern, non-gendered, and content-based. Suggestibility, inductions, hypnotic modalities, deepening techniques, troubleshooting and more.

Now Available:

Mastering Erotic Hypnosis: A Comprehensive Manual for Erotic Play, Fetish, and Kink
Mastering Erotic Hypnosis banner, features photo of James Gordon, C.Ht. and Rebecca Doll M. EDCI. Text reads "A book that lays bare all the secrets of hypnotic play. A scientific approach which respects the reader. Modern, non-gendered, and content-based. Suggestibility, inductions, hypnotic modalities, deepening techniques, troubleshooting and more.

Buy the paperback

Get the eBook for 99¢

Lays bare all the secrets of hypnotic play for pleasure and kink.

The Ebook can be purchased at Amazon or directly from us.

Clear, step by step guide explains underlying theory as well as practice so that you can understand hypnosis.

Authors James Gordon, a clinical hypnotherapist, and Rebecca Doll, who holds a master’s in education, have written an exhaustive guide.  Taking a clear, consent based, non-gendered , approach to hypnotic instruction, we use a scientific and historical approach to de-mystify hypnosis so that anyone and everyone can learn to hypnotize not just highly suggestible individuals, but any partner.

Not just a list of scripts or tricks!

A thorough course in the art and science of hypnosis:

  • Ethics and consent
  • Why inductions fail and what to do when it happens
  • Types of suggestibility and how to test for them
  • How to create a hypnotic modality
  • Deepening techniques

Erotic play suggestions including:

  • Eroticization of…anything
  • Orgasm control
  • Transformations of all kinds
  • Orgasm on command
  • Hypnotic roleplay

Hypnosis Induction Checklist

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Here’s a short checklist that can serve as an outline for most inductions.

  • Hypnotic modality
  • Authority
  • Do they think it will work
  • Compliance chain – some short chances to follow direction
  • Physical comfort and safety
    • Are they comfortable
    • Hazards
    • Not too comfortable
    • Comfortable place to continue
  • Do they imagine or visualize?
  • Should I use direct or indirect suggestions?
  • Patter – describe the effects of going into state
    • Cadence/Tone
    • Repetition
  • Physiological tricks
  • Overload
    • Focal Device – sometimes called “the induction” – eye fascination, etc.
    • Focal device – focus their attention
    • Redirect – move their attention
    • Physiological cues – call their attention to elements that suggest they are going into state
  • Conversion
    • Verbal component
    • Physical Component
  • Immediate Deepening
  • Coming Up
  • Post Hypnosis

Charmed Presentations!

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All handouts listed with classes below

Charmed Intensive

[ Slide Presentation ]

Thursday Jan 17th 01:00 PM – 10:00 PM ET

Charmed! Educational Goal: building hypnosis skills

This track is for beginning and intermediate hypnotists.

In this extended intensive we’ll work to build basic hypnosis skills to an intermediate level. We will work to link firm psychological foundations of hypnosis to empirical practice and experience in order to provide a robust toolbox that allows for easy and practical hypnosis with all subjects in all situations.  

At the end of this pre-conference beginning hypnotists should have a firm grasp of fundamentals, requiring only practice to reach an intermediate level. Intermediate hypnotists should have a rich toolbox in which all empirical learning is linked to firm principles allowing skills to be employed flexibly in every situation. Every student should have a firm understanding of using memory, suggestibility, and locus of control to create richer and more sensual experiences and responses.

1:00 pm to 10:00 pm. There will be breaks from 3:00 to 3:30 and from 6:00 to 7:30.

  • Introduction 1-3 (2 hrs)
  • Middle 3:30 – 6pm (2.5 hrs)
  • Final 7:30 – 10pm (2.5 hrs)

 

Charmed Classes:

Hypnosis, Safety, and Consent: Exploring concepts of consent and safer play

Friday 3:15-4:15  Harbor 1B [ Class Handout ]

Hypnosis 201 : Modalities, suggestibility, inductions, and play

Friday 5:45-6:45 Harbor 1A [ Modified Class Handout for Charmed 2019 ]

 [  Standard 201 Class Handout ]

Being Barbie: Hypnotic Dollification: An introduction to hypnotic doll play

Sunday 3:15-4:15 Harbor 2A    [ Class Handout ]

@Charmed! Jan 18-20, 2019

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We’ve been selected to present a seven hour intensive class for the Pre-Conference, Thursday January 17, 2019.  See the Charmed website for registration info, and other class schedules as they become available.

Here’s the description!

Mastering the Art and Science of Hypnosis

In this extended intensive we’ll work to build basic hypnosis skills to an intermediate level. We will work to link firm psychological foundations of hypnosis to empirical practice and experience in order to provide a robust toolbox that allows for easy and practical hypnosis with all subjects in all situations.  

At the end of this pre-conference beginning hypnotists should have a firm grasp of fundamentals, requiring only practice to reach an intermediate level. Intermediate hypnotists should have a rich toolbox in which all empirical learning is linked to firm principles allowing skills to be employed flexibly in every situation. Every student should have a firm understanding of using memory, suggestibility, and locus of control to create richer and more sensual experiences and responses.

All Charmed School Pre-conference tracks begin at 1:00pm and end no later than 10:00pm with a dinner break.  The schedule of each will be up to the teachers and will be published in advance.
 
Draft Schedule: 
 
1:00 – 3:00 pm Introductory elements 
3:00 – 3:30 pm break 
3:30 – 6:00 pm class – Techniques 
6:00 – 7:30 break (dinner)
7:30 – 10:00 class – Techniques, Visualization and Sensation